Happy New Year! Here, how to make resolutions you can keep—and the top reasons they fail.
About half of us make New Year's resolutions every year, according to the Journal of Clinical Psychology, yet research shows less than 10 per cent of us actually achieve our goals.
The most popular resolutions we mostly fail at include losing weight, exercising, stopping smoking, improving money-management skills and reducing debt.
"The thing is, will power alone often isn't enough," says Tim Pychyl, Professor of Psychology at Carleton University in Ottawa and the author of Solving the Procrastination Puzzle. "We have to have a bunch of strategies to prime the pump to get us going. It's not just one thing that's making us fail."
Most resolutions tend to fall by the wayside, Tim says, because people don't bring deep 'resolve' to their resolutions. "In philosophy, the notion of resolve means you bring your whole world to it, yet waiting for January to make resolutions is really just culturally-prescribed procrastination."
Another reason they fail is because we make resolutions for the future, an intention which makes us feel good now, yet when it's time to actually implement them we can't seem to get motivated. "We all have a six-year-old alive and well inside of us and when the time comes to start losing weight, or whatever, we think, 'I don't feel like it. I don't wanna'."
Tim, who's been studying procrastination for over 20 years, says New Year's resolutions also tend to tackle the things we've been unsuccessful at during the rest of the year, which can set us up for further disappointment, unless we use strategies that can increase our likelihood of success.
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