Assisted Suicide: The Shocking Case of Margot Bentley
When you’re writing a column, it’s inevitable to have to return to topics you’ve covered before, either because they’re too complex to sum up in one go or they’ve become newsworthy again. Still, it’s rare to have to revisit something as quickly as I am here with the story of Margot Bentley. But a recent court decision in the case of this 82-year-old suffering from advanced Alzheimer’s disease galvanizes me to action.
The decision was brought down by the Supreme Court of British Columbia in a dispute between the Bentley family on one side and the Maplewood Nursing Home, together with the province of British Columbia, on the other. In my opinion, the decision is stunningly cruel to Margot Bentley and may represent a major intrusion into the lives of all aging Canadians.
A quick recap. In 1991, Margot, a senior nurse who had for many years specialized in dementia care, signed a Statement of Wishes, directing that should she ever be so similarly stricken with no hope of recovery, she be allowed to die without “heroic measures” or artificial means, including the “dispensing of nourishment or liquids.” By the late ’90s, she was displaying early symptoms of the very thing she dreaded, Alzheimer’s disease, and, by 2011, she was in the final seventh stage – mute, immobile, surviving only because of spoon-feeding, which involved the reflexive opening of her mouth when her lips were tapped with a spoon. Her daughter and proxy, Katherine Hammond, contacted the Maplewood Nursing Home, where her mother was a resident, and asked that its caregivers stop feeding Margot per her own instructions.
After stalling for several months, Maplewood not only refused to stop the feeding, they refused to let Hammond and her dad and siblings transfer their mother to a hospice or Hammond’s home. Their argument: spoon-feeding wasn’t “health” care but basic or “personal” care, and Margot was “consenting” to the care by opening her mouth. Further, they said, if caregivers were to stop feeding, they could be charged with neglect under the province’s Adult Guardianship Act. In reply, the family launched a lawsuit against Maplewood, its parent organization, Fraser Health, and the province to get the feeding stopped. The B.C. Supreme Court began hearing the case last August, with the Honourable Mr. Justice Bruce Greyell presiding. Justice Greyell’s verdict was rendered this Feb. 3: in virtually every instance, he sided with the nursing home. He ruled the caregivers were to continue to spoon-feed Margot and that the home was justified in holding her a resident there, despite her family’s strong wishes to the contrary.
To say I was astonished, floored, gobsmacked by the judgment would be an understatement. It had never occurred to me that a signed instruction, so detailed, and written by a person who so vividly knew exactly what indignity advanced dementia could inflict, could be rejected by the Court. But other people closer to the trial were less surprised, among them Wanda Morris, the executive director of Dying with Dignity, an organization of which Christopher Plummer and I are lead patrons. She observed that a number of new arguments had been raised at the trial that seemed to tilt the balance toward the nursing home and the province.
If this fate can befall Margot, is any of us safe? The awful irony, of course, is that it should have been Margot. Who knew the real face of dementia better than she? Who tried harder to avoid what she dreaded might come? Who has more standing in the struggle to rest in peace?
This decision is important to all those who have thought through their own demise and created Advance Directives. Certainly, I’ll be phoning my lawyer to go over my Living Will and, if you have one, perhaps you should, too. What we all thought was clear may no longer be clear enough. Kieran Bridge, the Bentley family’s lawyer, suggests that Justice Greyell has set a standard of clarity so high that the greatest jurists in the world would have trouble satisfying it. Still, we must try.
Clearly, the issue of feeding needs more definition. Can the Directive show that at signing the patient understood that he or she might at some point not be able to feed themselves without assistance? On the other hand, when does assistance become too much? Does opening of the mouth constitute “consent”?
Another issue, perhaps the scariest of them all, concerns the person whose mind is still fully alive but whose body is not. They may be trapped within, without movement, voice or even vision. That was Sue Rodriguez. That is my greatest fear.
And, from the caregiver’s side, the executor’s side, how does a person develop the knowledge, the strength and the confidence to carry out the Directive for their loved one when pressured on all sides by the medical system, the legal system and other members of the family?