The Zoomer Report: Multi-Divorced Christmas

Juggling the holiday wishes of both sides of your family can be trying for anyone, but when the family includes several sets of divorced or separated couples, the demands seem to rise exponentially — as does the potential for hurt feelings and future grudges over who gets more face time.

Here is a game plan suggested by psychologists:

— Get together and plan travel and family engagements early.

— Gently propose alternative dates that at least one family may agree to.

— Blend families with care. Don’t force divorced parents to come to the same event.

— Prepare yourself for any emotional pot holes you may face. If there are unresolved tensions, put them on the back burner. Keep it light.

— If your relationship is new, warn your partner if you behave differently around family.

Experts say the top priority for surviving the family is to plan carefully and early, sometimes down to the hour.

Photo ©iStockphoto.com/ Isaac Koval

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Libby ZnaimerAbout The Zoomer Report
Libby Znaimer, a prominent Canadian journalist specializing in business, politics, and lifestyle issues, is producer and host of The Zoomer Report, a special feature on topics of interest to baby boomers and the 50+. It covers everything from health and wealth to leisure and volunteerism, from the special vantage point of the generation that has changed society in its wake. Ms. Znaimer is also Vice-President of News and Information for Classical 96.3FM and AM740. Her first book, “In Cancerland – Living Well Is The Best Revenge” – was published in October 2007 by Key Porter.

 

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